And if you're worried about "ruining Christmas", keep telling yourself the truth of the matter that SHE did this. SHE is the one who broke the marriage contract, betrayed you and your children, and willingly entered into and CONTINUED this affair. And to top it off, she's pulled all this additional BS and shoved it in your face RIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS. The only ruining that's being done is by her. You're just trying to steer a path to clearer, safer, and happier waters for you and your boys... And right now that is away from her!
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3