Youre a coach right? Use strategy. Pack her $hit. Put it by the front door. Have her out by the 1st. Do it without saying a word in silence other than Jan 1st notice. Follow through with it. Do it sooner than later. Either way its a win/win for you. She will resent you for kicking and screaming at first but trust me they need to respect you, and you need to respect yourself your integrity your self-worth and your family. A woman must first and foremost respect a man, and a man must love a woman. You have two choices allow it to continue, and her benefit from the marriage and the marriage home while rubbing your nose in dog$hit, continuing to be disrespectful, allowing her to cake eat off of it while invading YOUR PRIVACY. Or you can say BE GONE! You broke the marriage contract. GET OUT. Again SAY NOTHING! Just do it. I know this sounds like a bunch of outsiders are trying to talk you up into doing something we all know you really don't want to do. I totally understand that she's the mother of your children and you don't want to see her homeless or dramatize or upset the children in front of her or vice versa. But a rebellious attitude like this will do more damage to you and your family if you let her stay.
But it has to be done for two reasons. She wull only lose more respect for you and continue to to manipulate further if you don't put your foot down earlier now while the situation is fresh, rather than later when she takes even more advantage of you and your family and your home and your kids. Set the precedence. Two. It will give you a sense of self-worth and emotional protection. Ask yourself this question? If she was in was in her right mind, on moral high ground, and you cheated. She probably wouldn't hesitate to do this to you. People treat you the way you train them to treat you. Do it! Its a win/win. I've read about so many guys on here putting up with this kind of behavior for months and all they did was escalate further and further into disrespect and even more drama and manipulation. A lot of them wished I could go back in time and nip it in the bud early. Be a man of self worth and integrity and just do it. Make sure you record it for your protection too in case any false DV claims are brought against you. Maybe she'll get run over by a reindeer on the way to OM's house tonight. Lol. Get your Ball$ back Coach!
