"Walking Out Of The Valley"

[hoosjim]

Geeminy the STONES on this chick. She hits you, runs around on you, sleeps with OM and comes home and pushes it in your face, then sneaks in to YOUR bedroom and snoops on YOUR phone as if YOU have violated trust and does all this carrying on even though her son knows EXACTLY what she's doing as does most of your community (which further dsmages your son.) She needs to be put out out by out out OUT!!! Like yesterday. She is as wayward as they come and has NO RESPECT FOR YOU, DUDE! PUT HER THE EFF OUT! One of the most if not THE most liberating moments of my life was when I looked my WW in the eye and told her, with complete control and conviction and without raising my voice, "You disgust me. I want you out by the end of the week" and then walked away to go meet friends at a bar. BOOM. Bomb dropped. Within three weeks of that, she had turned and we were in MC taking first steps toward reconciling. But you know, even if we weren't, I would have been completely okay. I was FREE.
Free from the nonsense, and the temperature checks, And the head games, and the wondering what she was up to...all of it.

As for this site and DBing...This site is for you alone. Does she know your username? I always made it a point to log off and also clear my cache unless I was using incognito mode. Pretty sure MWD as well as the board moderators stress the importance of confidentiality for your DB-ing interactions... Wish you had followed that protocol because WW accessing and following that stuff really muddies the waters... Kind of like if she were spying on your IC sessions.

Not sure I know how to put the genie back in the bottle here wrt the site, but SHE needs to go. She's just way over th edge right now and you need to protect yourself and your son from her influence.