Thank you for reaching out to me! I am truly flattered that you have so much confidence in me! I also take that responsibility seriously and will think carefully before replying. I fear I am somewhat limited in my understanding of walkaways, because my own H was completely wayward. I get the sense from reading stories here that waywards are more likely to return to the M. The infidelity can feel like a bigger betrayal, however their fantasy of building a new life with someone else is more likely to self destruct than if they have been planning to leave on their own for some time. So in my sitch, my H was chasing something else more so than running away from something, which is perhaps why he fell so hard.
So I will get to your threads soon. The holidays are a busy time and I also work more in the winter months. But I will start reading today.
I am also so thrilled to see Dilly posted an update! I look forward to reading that too. Welcome back, Dilly, we’ve missed you! Hugs!
Merry holidays, friends! I hope everyone can take some moments of joy for themselves. I recall a very painful holiday season after BD 5 years ago. So I want to offer you all comfort and hope. Things can and will get better, you just have to believe. Happiness is not ever handed to us, it is something we learn to create. Give a small gift of happiness to yourself, even if only for a small moment between the sadness.
Peace and love.
Cheers! Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
