LH19 Bare minimum of two years if not at all.. Yeah I figured that if that. Move on. Absolutely. No point in slamming my d!ck in the door for a 6th or 7th time. Thanks for the reassurance and appealing to my logical side ;-) Its much better to live life on my own terms, not having to appeal to or pine for anyone. Much more mentally relieving to cross "that bridge when I get to it if I ever get to it." People make choices and take actions in life. Some have positive consequences, some negative. I can live with that. I always flew by the seat of my pants in life anyway for the most part. But now I have some serious planning of what my life will look like this next year and the next 30.