I’ll be honest with you guys I don’t see any other choice but divorce. At least I can get some of my respect, self-worth, and self-esteem back. I’ve already come to the conclusion that she will never stop until she can live with this guy and spend her time with him.
Divorce will not do anything on its own for your emotional wellbeing.
Originally Posted by bballer1
Losing her son may help bring some clarity but I’m not sure. Guys I’m really ready to file for divorce. Her honesty had a sense of arrogance and entitlement to it. Very humiliating and unbelievably raw. How can someone say those things and be saved or want to save her marriage. She even admits that it is him and her against the world or in her words they are criminals together.
It will not bring clarity to her. You have to have the fact that she's an addict allways in your sight.
Don't be her shoulder to cry on. You cannot allow yourself to be disrespected in such a manner. Next time the convo turns in this direction, just walk out. There is no doubt that your W is hurting, but not in a way a husband could or should help her. Let her be, she will do what she wil ldo, she is lost to you and the world ATM. I am a vet. My situation is eerily similar to your. I predicted everything in your case, just by replaying my memories from 4-5 yrs ago. The similarities are astounding. This is why they call it script.
