Dude. I can't believe you just sat there and let her describe her liaison with OM in that kind of detail. Seriously, did you question her or ask her or even WANT to know or did she just spill it on you. If former...idk, but not sure idve wanted to know all that... If latter, then GTFO!!! She's got to go. Incredibly disrespectful to just out with "yeah, I went over and slept with him and we went bareback".... You can and should just cut that line of chatter off as soon as it starts. She's flaunting it, man... You gotta change something...
No way she has any respect for you dropping that BS on you, in your home, and you letting it continue with no consequences...
Does she know your son knows? She should...
And that BS about "not wanting to be with him" is just that: Bull$**t. Standard WW narrative. My ww said same thing in the depths of her affair: "Oh I don't want to be with anyone right now...I just want to be on my own to figure things out". It's BULL$HIT. They all say it and it's always code for "I want to be free from observation so I can go skank with om"
You are in beyond The last resort technique. Boot her from the MBR, lock on the door, go completely dark.
Last edited by hoosjim; 12/24/1904:10 AM.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
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