Yeah, I misspoke on that one. I’ve told my son and he knows I don’t agree with what is going on. We are very close to getting a divorce. My wife had some wine tonight and we were wrapping presents for the kids.
She laid most all of it out on the line. She admits to seeing him Saturday and having sex with him, unprotected and using the pullout method. She admits that she has tried to break it off with him twice and she could only go two days without talking to him. She admits that she is not sure she wants to be with him and she just wants to be separated so she can live life without being tethered down. She admitted to when they started the physical affair back in March. She admits there is an emotional connection based on communication. She admits that she doesn’t want to be married because she is tired of lying and cheating. She even mentioned dying to escape the addiction. She admits that she can’t stop the addiction because she has tried several times.
In all of this I just told her to file if she wants to but this isn’t how I will live in a marriage. I told her it is very important for her to move out considering she still talks with him and has sex with him.