A little story to support that i feel she hasn’t been in her right mind. One day my wife, her sister and her kids, and me were all shopping together, her sisters husband got off work and came to take their kids home but only one wanted to go so he took that one. Few hours later we get to their house and her sisters husband is running out the house absolutely freaking out, find out that the kid he took home wanted to go on the trampoline in the front yard (they live on a busy road in a bad part of town with a lot of crime, and she’s not even 5 years old) he let her while he stayed inside playing xbox and when he went out front she wasn't there, and that’s around the time we were pulling up. Her sister starts breaking down crying uncontrollably, the neighbors start looking around the neighborhood, me and my wife drive up the street to look and while i’m driving and looking my wife is just sitting there, not looking and has her arms crossed looking mad, but not mad about one of her nieces missing, more mad that we were having to waste our time looking for her. I asked her what should we do and she just shrugged her shoulders. Turns out the kid was in the backyard all along, my wife doesn’t look relieved or get out to hug her niece or say she loves them or even tells any of them bye, didn’t comfort her sister or anything, she just sat in the front seat and said “can we go now” with the coldest attitude ever