I don't think we need to worry about J9 being impulsive. Putting his foot in his mouth - yes. Impulsive - no. He's shown that he's a pretty heavy duty thinker and planner who I suspect for a career is involved in something that requires a fair amount of risk management. He just strikes me as that type.
And maybe if he literally stuffs his foot into his mouth - he won't blurt out anything he regrets
That is a much better way of stating what I meant. I don’t think J9 would be impulsive about it, I’ve just noticed, way many times, words coming out or getting typed that were probably not meant the way they came out.
I think you know it’s too soon, it’s not the right time, there are many serious discussions that still need to happen... I think you see that as many here do. The huge question is, does the doctor? And even if her brain agrees, her heart, after this past weekend, may be something else. Remember she’s in the throws of early love, and all things wonderful and it will just all work out and I’m just so happy, and he’s so wonderful, and... I think that’s where the doctor is at , plus, “he asked me what kind of a ring I’d like,”. Am I wrong ladies and gentlemen?
Just be sure to fully engage brain before putting mouth in gear. .
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