Woodchipper....lol.. Sorry you are here. We have all heard the same exact delusional commentary from WAS's and WS's REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT THE ONE HOLDING RESENTMENT. YOU ATE NOT THE ONE WHO LEFY TGE M and YOU ARE NOT THE ONE WHO CHEATED. Your BD is my S2's birthday. Tough love. Set boundaries for your protection. Get counciling and get well. Grow some patience. GAL and make YOURSELF PRIORITY #1. Let them come to you. They haven't hit rock bottom yet.