Thank you. How would he know if he is not in the same state anymore? Do I not reach out at all? We lived together for 4 years. Together for 4. My kids miss him still...He is cold and distant. When I was not anxious and all anxiety talk, he'd respond but then I lost if and started to over text and relationship stuff. He is cold again. I asked him what he wants me to do and he said "concentrate on you and don't worry about things you cannot change" :-(