If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't call her. I would step back, give her lots of time and space to mull things over. She can't miss you if you are calling her. Let her wonder what you are doing for the day. If she contacts you, then wait a while before responding. Don't be hasty in calling/texting her. Give her the space she craves. Until she comes to realize that you are not her whipping boy, she'll continue to spew at you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
