Maybe it was the booze talking I have never been told that before. I just didn't think about as the woman who got engaged was showing off her ring. She will be meeting my mom for the first time tomorrow so I really don't think she is expecting a ring for xmas. She knows my mom is the gate keeper.
I don't feel any pressure and if she brings it up I will stay true to myself. She knows we both have not spent a ton of time around each others kids and I would hope she would know we have not had a ton of big discussions either around some of those details you have outlined above.
I have never been told that before. I just didn't think about as the woman who got engaged was showing off her ring. She will be meeting my mom for the first time tomorrow so I really don't think she is expecting a ring for xmas. She knows my mom is the gate keeper.