I have been learning and applying the NC. it has been rough for me. it seems when we have to talk about the kids, she is still so vile and negative. last week she got dug in to me and it really affected me. one thing that I don't agree with, W and D15 have become BFF, in turn, I am the Devil. W acts like she is 15. W moved out a month ago and already she is trying to paint me the deadbeat D. she insisted that she keep the adopted babies. I have let her contact me when she wants me to pick them up, and which I do gladly. I keep them for days at a time. in front of D15 she states that I have never ever once called and asked to take them. well, its only been a month. saying that I am a deadbeat dad is something she would have never said. also, she would have never degraded me in front of our children.
she is mad that I do not communicate with her. she says that I am abandoning the family, yet I am all alone in the family home.
I cannot believe the amount of lying she does, for no reason, it baffles me.
