If hear ya. I fought the board tooth and nail about keeping my relationship with the in laws. Let them be her family first and don't give your W any ammo or reason to resent you.
If you are going dark and detaching from your W it only makes sense to let her parents go too.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.