Thank you so much for posting to me! You have given me a lot to think about. I appreciate that. I am going to read your post a few more times and let it sink in further. I don't want to just post the same GAL GAL GAL over and over again! There really is so much more to this than that. Honestly, I didn't even post after my own BD. It was so, so painful and I was a mess. I was depressed, anxious, could barely eat or sleep, or even focus on work. I was not okay. I was just trying to survive. I admire all of you that can come here and share your vulnerabilities. We need to be more patient and kind, and I include myself in that.
I would like to read your threads. I do hope you stay with us. It is also good for the community to have more diverse posters so we all feel welcomed. I would hate to think that people didn't post because they felt misunderstood, judged or not welcomed. Sometimes by sharing our own stories or perspectives, we can help create a culture of inclusiveness. I know that there are many more people that read here that don't post. I know because I was one of them.
To anyone reading, I would love to hear your story, even if it isn't like mine or the others'. Just send me a note here :-)
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela