Try thinking about it this way- your H is in crisis and he has trouble managing even his own issues, so to expect him to think in your shoes and how you feel etc is pointless. Also key word- expectations. You are angry because you expect to be treated better. You expect that he keeps a minimum level of consideration. Let go of that expectation. Resentment grows when expectations are not met, and it’s not good for your PMA.
Friends can only speculate because they are not living your life and they never have. Nobody knows your sitch better than you do, only you can decide whether it is the right decision to stand for your M. I haven’t updated the few close friends who knows about my situation in awhile, mainly because I find the forum to be a better outlet for me than my friends. Friends tend to choose sides, either way doesn’t really help you looking at things from a neutral perspective. Hang in there, time is on your side.
