I feel so disrespected when my H does these hurtful things without apologizing (e.g., coming in at 6 and 7 a.m. after being out all night). The disrespect angers me. For those who have been DBing for a while, how did you get past the feeling disrespected and angry? It is killing me.

My feeling is that even if you want to divorce me, how can you mistreat me this way when I have been loyal to you for 14 years+? Thank goodness he is nice and warm to the children (although I do wonder how was able to completely switch to ice cold with me in a matter of 24 hours). It really is like a body snatcher took my real H and left me with a complete jerk.

Last edited by HesAble; 12/21/19 05:21 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years