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Sorry that you have so many obstacles..

I would trust yourself to know which way is best for you.

Im glad to hear your W is making a shift..It is rare we see a MLCer get to the other side, Im sure many do, but maybe posters dont update..

so this is hopeful at least for her and your kids
I hope she continues to thrive and for you...
no matter what the situation with your W..you may want to encourage this and buiid a solid coparenting
friendship and help her along the way especially if she is in therapy and trying to work her issues out

leave the outcome to a higher source...

good luck


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow