On weekends, however, my oldest child stays up later gaming and I think that is how he has noticed that something is off.
Also, of course they have to notice how cold and distant H has been to me (when he used to be affectionate - he was the guy who would make a stranger gag with PDA) even though they have never asked questions or mentioned it.
I'm sorry to hear that. It is rough. I've noticed that my eldest notices very quickly when H leaves his sight these days and immediately asks where dad is going. They also have not asked questions yet but I'm pretty sure they sense something is off.
You're gonna get there. I remember those days when I'd get really anxious and I'd wake up in the middle of the night to see if he's home yet. and then he started not coming home at all. there was no notice, just sudden absence. And now I also rather for him to move out completely but I haven't brought it up. Still just taking it one day at a time to see where this thing goes....
