MLC or Exit Afffair?

[HesAble]

Hesable- just curious, have your children asked any questions regarding H’s behavior?

My daughter asked one morning, "Where's daddy?" Also, I have heard my son pulling apart the shades late at night to look outside when I do not recall him doing this before. One night I heard him go down to the basement and come back to his room. They have both asked me, "Are you ok?" on multiple occasions when I was trying to hold it together in the beginning right after the BD.

Even before the BD, H would generally come home from "work" on weekdays when the children were in bed, so they probably don't think it is that unusual to go to bed when he is not at home. He is generally home by the time they wake up around 7 a.m. There were two or three times when he came in much later in the morning (on weekends or a Monday). On weekends, however, my oldest child stays up later gaming and I think that is how he has noticed that something is off.

Also, of course they have to notice how cold and distant H has been to me (when he used to be affectionate - he was the guy who would make a stranger gag with PDA) even though they have never asked questions or mentioned it. He is still warm and fuzzy with them during the few times he is around.