Please do not "assume" anything when it comes to your spouses. There are a couple of possibilities of where he may have been after hours, i.e., sleeping in his vehicle, staying over a friends place or just riding around. When we assume something, it makes us that much more frustrated and angry. The best thing to think he is innocent until proven guilty. He will eventually tell on himself.
I will try not to assume but, because he has always had a high libido and now won't touch me with a 10 foot pole plus because he has been unfaithful before, I assume he is with some OW. I will try hard to stop assuming.
Last edited by HesAble; 12/20/1911:23 PM.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
