Originally Posted by cardinal
...HesAble, my H was always a night owl too. Now I'm thinking there's got to be a difference between staying up late watching TV or whatever and his new ritual of going to bars and/or concerts almost every night. It makes me exhausted just thinking about it.


I have no idea where my H goes because he never tells me, but I cannot imagine there is any bar, club that stays open until 6 a.m. when he comes in at 7 a.m. and later. Some nights he comes in earlier (e.g., 4 a.m.) but it is just random. I am assuming he is at some OW's home. It really makes me angry thinking about it.

Last edited by HesAble; 12/20/19 09:09 PM.

H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years