Have you visited any of the other threads that are on the forum? There is one that I am pasting in that may help you better understand what you should/should not do. Sandi is a very intelligent young lady who is spot on w/her advice and she's a straight shooter. Here is the link to her thread:
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
