You are a newbie, so I will share one of the rules that we adhere to around here. When we register to post here, we agree to not reference other sites that are related to marriages/relationships. I have removed the reference of another site in your postings.
Since this forum goes hand in hand with the Coaching, books, etc., then you have the option of purchasing coaching sessions here. We do not recommend outside coaching for marital issues to the posters unless the coaching is directly related to this DB site.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
