Own gave good advice, and I was thinking the same

get a few free consulations with a good Divorce attorney..
MY friend recommended me hers, and he was lifesaving
after the consulktation, you can either stay with that attorney, or choose another-
they will also discuss their cost, if you should choose them

The free consultation will pave a clear path...
what you will get
what is yours...what will be his
how much alimony and child support

The attorney really knows the whole deal..its their specialty and in one hour of free advice
you will know everything
it was empowering for me-

The MLCer will want to split things on their own with little help from an attorney
Make it clear that you wont do that when the time comes.


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow