Thank you. I have looked at these. Looking for suggestions how to proceed...reach out or not reach out...what if too much distance will just help him find a new person...do I give up like everyone around me says (not easy for me though for some reason)...
Whenever you reach out he sees that as you being needy and desperate to get back together, and that is not at all attractive. He's got to learn to miss you before he will want you back. If you suddenly quit contacting him and start enjoying life and possibly dating others if that's what you eventually want, then he will suddenly see you as higher value and he will find that attractive. Time and space is what he needs.
