Thanks a lot for the reply, I definitely want to fight to change it and the lawyer has recommended it to me. I will change the agreement and keep it a plain separation.
I had a very good interaction with W yesterday, but my hopes are kept under control. I came to pick up the clothes of the children and it went something like this.
W: Hi, I know we need to talk about Christmas presents for S1 and S6 but I am very tired today and have tones of things to do, I'd rather call you at some other time, I hope you can respect it
Me: I understand. You must be very tired after the week with the children. I hope you get a good rest this weekend. I'll be there by 8 pm
(I arrive there and she comes out with suitcase, I pick it up and ask her a couple of school related questions)
Me: goodnight W (attempt to kiss her on the cheek)
W: I am not going to kiss you now
Me: Sure (walks away in cool fashion)
(10 mins later she calls me and we spend a great 20 min talking about her present ideas where I listen, ask questions and validate her feelings)
I dont know if she called me in regret after sending me away so fast or simply because it was a good time for her. I only know I want more of these interactions. I love all I am learning from you guys.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
