When a person enters MLC, then begin first by distancing themselves from their spouse, kids, pets. home, family, friends and co-workers. They begin to do things that they wouldn't normally have done in the past. When they begin to gradually come back to the real world from the land of Oz, they will begin by reconnecting with their co-workers, friends, family, home, pets, kids and finally you, the spouse. If you are one of the lucky ones that has a spouse wanting to return and he/she comes home, it will take approximately 18-24 months before they finally settled down and feel comfortable in their own skin. When the return home, that will be hardest part of the journey because you both will have changed and will need to remember that this will be a new marriage for both of you. You, the spouse, will need to dig deeper for patience and understanding and allow the MLCer time to come to you and talk about things and you will need to become a very good listener. Neither of you will be the same. MLC changes both of you.
Here's a link that will help you to better understand "reconnection" once they begin to truly wake up.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
