Hey Dan don’t think too much about the gift card just do it. Something generic like you’d give to a colleague. China set was something you’d give in your old life.

Gifts are tough sometimes. I remember our first xmas together I got her a CD. She was banging on about how much she loved a band so I got her the CD. She absolutely lost it saying a CD isn’t something you give for a special occasion blah blah. Mind you oftentimes she’d forget gifts for me or do something at the last minute. Anyway.

With gym don’t just go for toned go for bulk then tone. I was slim too but tall. I’m getting really happy with my chest shoulders and rib muscles and am doing heavy weight but short reps. Really transform so next time she sees you she drools at your physical stature and is seduced by your happy confident commanding vibe and presence. Her not seeing you is giving you the gift of time to transform and surprise her.

I would have your relos post her the cards. Anyway why on earth would they want to give her anything?

Cheers ds


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24