Yes, thinking about the gift card idea. I'll think on it and decide later today. Have to go to the house tomorrow to sign a form (W has left it on the dining table for me) and pick up a few things.
Gym is going well. Yoga is really helping in particular; I do it every Wednesday evening, and it just relaxes me and clears my head for an hour. I'm upping weights gradually and seeing changes now. I've always had a very slight and skinny build, so it'll take time to tone up properly but obviously not looking to body build or anything like that!!
My parents and sister have cards for W. I will take them and leave them on the table. I think that's fine; they cannot be said to be pursuing since they and W haven't spoken in 6 months. I won't get her a card.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020