W birthday is coming up soon (in four days). Usually I would do some sort of grand romantic gesture for her, but in this current situation I am thinking of toning it down a bit. Perhaps a simple "happy birthday" greeting and a small gift. I think ignoring her birthday (detachment) is bad and yet going full on celebrating it in a grand romantic way is also bad. Somewhere in the middle. Thoughts?
Thinking of booking a spa treatment for her. She's feeling depressed so it might help...?
M: 28 W: 30 T: 2 years Married: Nov 2019 BD: 5 days after wedding (I know right?)
