Newlywed and in crisis

[funbun]

Thanks again everyone. Stopping the pursuit and detachment seems to be the way to go at the moment.

I would wait on separation. Likely you are exploring floating that because you are under the what we call the "illusion of action". You feel you must DO something. Anything. However, what you need to understand that doing nothing IS doing something. Most of the time in DBing, doing nothing is the right approach.

So take some time, think it over. Don't do it out of the feeling you need to do something. There is nothing worse than deciding to suggest this, having her take you up on it, and then regretting the offer.

I haven't thought of it that way. This helps. Thanks Steve.

Where do you live? Are you in the US or someplace else?

I live outside of the US. In a predominately muslim country.