Hi. Total newbie here. Just waiting for the book and looked at posts. Forgive me as I don’t know how to start a new thread. Would you direct me to how to start working the process?

We weren’t married but lived together for 4 years. Total together 5. He was a father figure or my kids. No affairs. But he felt I wasn’t supportive and we argued too much so when I over reacted and pushed him away he left. It has been a year. I’ve tried Mort Fertel since May but I keep reaching out. He will respond but If relationship talk he will ignore. He has said too long, everyone knows, feelings not there anymore (used to be “feelings so strong don’t know what to do”). So total different person. I’ve learned my mistakes and want to get back together and start anew, do it right but he isn’t open to it.

Where do I begin with this new process that is taught by this program? Are expensive coaching sessions helpful? Mort’s coach told me to stay friends and be open to a new relationship with someone new.

I have a hard time letting go....thank you for any information, direction, lessons.