"Walking Out Of The Valley"

[DS9]

I realize I was never around, neglected her needs, didn’t make her feel attractive and wonderful, was always playing golf, and never spent a lot of time together as a family. Of course I have been doing those things for the past 5 months and this hasn’t worked.

I can’t win for losing.

Maybe the damage from the past is too much. What I do know is that at this point I need to focus on myself and my son.

Hey BB,

I just wanted to make an observation as your words struck me. Not being critical at all, but I was pretty much the opposite of the dynamic you describe in the first paragraph, yet here we both are.

I think a balance is key. Not too far in either spectrum, what Dr Robert Glover calls the 'integrated male'.

Cheers, DS