Ignoring her calls and text and staying gone works.
I did that today and she constantly called and sent text to which I never answered but I eventually text I was at the movies. She then says we need to go out together and watch a movie and have dinner.
Now all of this and just yesterday she sat across from her adulterous partner in the gym and didn’t sit with me and my family. My brother called and he was at the game. He was livid that she would disrespect me in public with everyone knowing their situation.
As for the OM, I do not plan on confronting him. I do plan to continue to go dark. I’ve got to get her clothes out of the closet and then I can lock the door to the MB so she will stay out. I’ve told her my boundaries but she continues to disrespect them. I come home she is in the MB on the bed. I have to ask her to leave.
My problem is I don’t want to come across as manipulative or mean. Hard line to draw but I almost have to be mean and demand she stay out of the MB and to only contact me about the kids.
