I'm so sorry you're sick and feeling lousy. Sometimes it feels like the weight of everything comes crashing down all at once and we have no choice but to deal with life on life's terms. Yeah it does [censored].
I'm there too - feeling just blecch and wanting the holidays to hurry up and go away already.
Watch out only for yourself and your kids. Everyone else's drama is up to them - those are whole other cans of worms you don't have to deal with right now anyway. You've got enough on your plate.
I've had my fill of explaining things to people. Now - when asked, I say "I don't want to talk about it right now, but thank you."
