Don't confront the OM. It's not worth it. You have a family and career to protect and this guy isn't worth it.

Don't drag your W to OM's house. Bad idea.

Go back to doing what works for your sitch.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.