Core, to me the biggest issue you need to tackle is how to find inner happiness. I've lately in a lot of threads been hammering on the idea of finding happiness first with yourself before you can be one half of a happy MR. What does this mean? It means that the LAST thing that should be on your mind is dating other women.....even if your wife files for D! Why? Because the one thing you should be learning from all of this is that you haven't been happy with yourself........maybe ever. Therefore you cannot possible have a happy MR since that requires to happy, healthy individuals coming together as a couple.
Again, a lot of this should be explore in IC, but this is why we say focus on you. Become the best you that you can be! If you don't, then you are setting yourself up for BD#2, whether that is with someone new, or in MR 2.0 with your W.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
