It's been like two days and you're applying pressure and she already has to remind you she's not working on the marriage. I can also tell it won't be long you will be asking her to come back in the bedroom.
Actually I moved all her things out of the MB except her closet. This morning she showered and got ready in the other bathroom as well. When I got home I changed the lock on the MB door. So no after seeing the OM and our conversation, her not sitting with me and almost ignoring me, there is no way in hell she will be back in the MB.
I am going to call the bank today and finish completing questionnaire from my lawyer. I still need to pay him a retainer fee. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around waiting this out. One of my mentors that has been through this told me that, one day I will wake up and decide I have had enough. He said I will know for sure when I am ready to file for divorce.
After last night there is no doubt she is still in contact and has plans with the OM. She doesn't want to be tethered down. Those were her words. I have a hard time hearing this after last night.
