It's been like two days and you're applying pressure and she already has to remind you she's not working on the marriage. I can also tell it won't be long you will be asking her to come back in the bedroom.
For you to have a successful recon she will have to:
1. See you as a person of value (right now she doesn't) 2. Being willing to work hard on the relationship (right now she isn't) 3. Earn your trust back (obviously too early for that)