At least you get some interaction. My H just came home from who knows where, and all he said to my D and me was, “I’m closing this door, I’m going to bed” it is 7:30 and he’s sleeping in the living room.
All I can say is they’re in deep, and if they could have seen this when they weren’t in the middle of this, I think they’re be shocked.
Hang in there! You said it yourself that “God doesn’t give us more than we can handle” you and I are STRONG. Remember that.