I am absolutely doing JC with regards to the kids. My hopes are we can keep it civil from here on out.

She avoided stating to wanting me back but said she missed the family and wishes the kids could have us both around. She also wants to keep things "equitable" between the households.....bed time, snack time, activities etc... she has stated several times I should end my R due to GFs ex
Kids clearly enjoy time with me and I'm sure W cannot stand it.

She claims to be in IC and says it is helping.

Part of me is selfish.....it was so easy to watch R with OM fall apart. The thought of her with a "normal" person is somewhat scary. I'm not sure why. I just hope there is not several OM introduced to the kids.