Ok so I'm kinda messed up but it's in degrees now I think.
We are all messed up. Not knowing we are messed up is the problem. When we know we are messed up, or how, then we can work on ourselves to address the issues.
My lady helps point out "my issues". As long as I am "listening" to her, I can make changes as needed. Same with other people in my life. my Kids, boss, friends, etc.
Taking each day as it comes, doing your best, making positive changes is all we can do.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712