I'm concerned with the advice being given here without any professional guidance. Kas. I wonder if there a way/place/etc that could help sort this out from a social worker or other family services. I don't know if you might have any connections with your job.
I swear I'm not as messed up as I come across here. DB got me looking at my life from all angles. The fallout from my M affected everyone not just me. Some of ya'll had WAS's who still cared about their kids. Mine walked out leaving me a single parent for 6 months. These problems were all there before they just got magnified 1,000x after BD to the point where I could see them clearly. Take away all the distractions of complacency and all that's left is exposed.
We have evolved as a family and have gotten stroger but there are growing pains still.
