I'm concerned with the advice being given here without any professional guidance.
Professional guidance is important.
These forums are for brainstorming ideas that fall in line with MWD DBing methods. Each poster needs to take in all the ideas, and if they have professionals involved, discuss them, and make choices.
I have had family therapists set up in the past. SD is seeing and IC right now. Last week D17 ask if I could setup IC for her.
Originally Posted by kas99
You want me to spend money on counseling but the only way for me to do that is to touch savings. Take the risk or do what I want to do which is ride this out for another 2 months.
KAS, if you are not in IC, do that first. You put your oxygen mask on before helping others. Then you help the children get theirs on. Do not wait.
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