I was feeling so bad today I wrote to my W asking if we should get external objective help to piece. Maaaaaassive step back, what needs to be the mindset to let her go and truly stop pursuing?
LRT, LRT & LRT
The mindset needs to be that pursuit and pressure have almost no chance of actually working. Ever. Until LBSs get that (and usually it is way too late), they can't seem to help themselves with this kind of action.
You know how you feel the moment after you sent the message? Try to remember that feeling BEFORE you send another message like that.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
