Happy Birthday Ben!!!! Sorry about the wisdom tooth, I only had two, one on top and one diagonally from it on bottom. Had both removed at the same time and didn't have any issues, but from talking to others over the years there's a wide variety of side effects that can crop up like yours! Glad to hear you are doing better.
Originally Posted by BenB
Stbxw was the first one to message me and congratulate -
W: Happy birthday! (5 different emojis, birthday cake, flowers, balloon etc) Wish I could celebrate with you Hope you´ll have a wonderful day with lots of fun and joy <3
She is the queen of temperature checks, that's for sure!
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Me: Thank you very much
Honestly, I didn´t know what else to answer.
No more needed, that was a good response.
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I have days when I miss her still of course but it´s easy to remind myself that she doesn´t know what she wants. And I´m not going to wait around for her to figure that out while I´m being disrespected. Before she moved out, every time I showed even the slightest interest, she would become distant again.
It's definitely normal to miss her, but it's good that you are able to miss her without feeling the need to temp check her. You are right, she's got to figure things out on her own and if you reach out she will distance again.
Enjoy your holiday break! I'm taking off next week and half the following, definitely looking forward to it