Seems we're all giving you the same advice regarding being cautious, not trusting her and on expecting her to regress a few times before she's really on-board with recon. BB, you've been a great listener and have done really well at implementing DB recommendations throughout your time here. I know it's not easy sometimes and "feels" wrong, but your sitch is a great example of how it can be effective when done properly. Keep it up!

Originally Posted by bballer1
How do I clip the quotes instead of the entire dialogue?


After you hit "quote" below the post, you can edit it in the editing window to remove everything you don't want. Just make sure to keep the quote tags before and after the post so it displays correctly. You can hit "preview reply" before posting to make sure it looks like you want it to (I do this every time I post). Also you can click on "use full editor" which gives you more editing options, such as bolding text, italicizing, adding quote tags around text, etc.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57